Am I wrong to leave my family dinner at the restaurant?

A person found themselves in a challenging situation during a family dinner at an upscale restaurant. Accustomed to treating their family upon returning from a successful job abroad, this time, the family dinner was organized without consulting them. Upon arrival, they were surprised to find over 20 attendees, including someone they barely knew.

The gathering indulged in expensive steaks, and the person received praise for footing the bill, which had already reached around $4,000. Feeling taken advantage of, they left $100 and announced their refusal to pay. Choosing to evade further confrontation, they turned off their phone and left the country without bidding farewell.

Despite the extreme reaction, the person experienced hurt feelings, as they had been consistently generous, providing cars, home renovations, vacations, and more. In response, their family accused them of selfishness and disrespect.

Feeling unappreciated, the person decided to withdraw various services and financial support for their family. This move was met with negative reactions, including being uninvited from a cousin’s wedding. Hostile messages from their mother and accusations of greed from the family followed.

On Reddit, many sided with the person, asserting that their family was disrespectful for presuming they would cover the expenses for everyone. The consensus was that the person did the right thing by standing up for themselves in this situation.