Kelly Clarkson is open about her co-parenting experience.
The 42-year-old mother of two recently discussed her co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband Brandon Blackstock on the newest edition of the Not Gonna Lie podcast, presented by Kylie Kelce.
During the episode, Clarkson acknowledged the mom guilt she experiences when she needs to leave her children for work or is unable to attend one of their school performances in the middle of the day. The “Stronger” singer also spoke with the pregnant podcaster, 33, on the double standards that exist for working mothers and fathers.
“It’s funny though how different it is because even from a young age, like we didn’t teach them [that],” she said with Kelce. “You’re just like, ‘He’s allowed to be there, but you’re not.'” “That’s really interesting.”
“I keep a lot of things to myself because co-parenting is fun,” she told me. “It’s like, ‘Oh, he couldn’t come because of this.’ And I’m like
The American Idol victor became a mother for the first time in June 2014, when her daughter River Rose was born, only four weeks after she married Blackstock. Almost two years later, in April 2016, the former couple welcomed their son Remington “Remy” Alexander into the family.
In a cover story interview with Variety published in September 2022, the artist talked about being vulnerable with her children, especially when it came to addressing her divorce from her former spouse.
“I believe the most essential thing I’ve learned in therapy, particularly after this divorce, is ‘Don’t conceal things from your children.’ Obviously, don’t talk about things you shouldn’t talk about, but it’s acceptable if kids see you crying or having a horrible day,” she told the site.
She wrote, “You begin to experience a sense of shame, feeling compelled to perform well as a mother to avoid affecting them.” “But then you allow your kids to express empathy, and they learn how to say, ‘Oh, man, I’m sorry you had a hard day.'”
In June 2020, the “Since U Been Gone” singer partnered with Carter’s to offer a virtual ShowHER Love baby shower for new and expecting mothers. On the occasion, she shared some of the most valuable lessons she’s learned as a mother. Clarkson stated that there is “no greater gift” than motherhood, although it does have its challenges.
“All of these amazing activities with your children will inspire you. Try something you’ve never done before.” Try things you have never done before,” she said. “Being a parent is a fantastic experience. I understand it might be overwhelming, but it is truly great. You’re not only shaping their lives; you’re also altering yourself.”
Clarkson advised the group to “let yourself off the hook,” whether they are stay-at-home or working mothers, because they are still getting things done and being productive. “It’s all about figuring out time management as a new mom.”
“You’ve got to look at the humor in everything and in yourself,” she went on, “There will be times when you want to weep so hard—and that’s good!” But just try to laugh and let it go.”